Isn't it 'this for that' without the 'h?' Alrite, is this too obvious or am I plain silly? I just wonder who in the world did concoct phrases like this? Anyways, my point here is, is it always justified to give tit for tat? Does it help?
I would think that in most of the cases, it is justified....especially if the action in question affects you, hurts you in watever proportion. You need to give them (the second party) the taste of their own medicine. Make them realize what they did is wrong, isn't it? But does it work? Sometimes I think, if they realized themselves what they did was wrong, wouldn't they just come and apologize? And when you do the "tit for tat" routine, in most cases, it fans the fire and leads to more clashes. More vengeance, more hatred, and more spite. Then, how exactly are you supposed to let them know wat they did was wrong? Is there a more peaceful way to handle this?
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