Thursday, June 13, 2013

Storm!

I step out of the house to drop Anushka to her bus stop. The sky is clear, the day blue. We walk with lazy steps letting a super mom with a stroller and her dog stride by swiftly, obviously out for her daily 'stay-fit' regimen. A couple of minutes pass by and I look at the trees at the horizon. My horizon isn't too far, just a couple of hundred feet away, limited by these very trees. And there I see, the storm brewing up and making it's way toward us at a furious pace. By the time, I talk with other parents about the looming storm, the wind starts blowing, rustling the leaves impatiently and the light grows dimmer. Within a minute of me noticing the storm, the day has changed it's hues and is growing darker. The super mom has turned and is coming back leaving her jog midway. Big drops of rain drizzle from up above. The bus comes at the nick of time and the kids are safely tucked inside, all bubbling with excitement about a possible tornado or a big storm with hard-hitting hail. I kiss her goodbye and run my way to home not wanting to get drenched. The storm has arrived. 

Many parallels have been drawn, metaphorically implying the 'weathery' storm to imitate our lives and our problems. It is true, that some storms hit you completely by surprise, with no fault of our own, and some, not as sudden. The not-so-sudden ones could be a result of our mistakes, or rather, missteps we took in our lives.  Reasons can be plenty. Age is not the prime factor. Sometimes our eyes are blinded by some superficial sheen, an ulterior attitude, a prideful persona, or simply immaturity. Immaturity to prioritize our needs, our wants, our desires and ultimately, our life. Mistakes occur out of ignorance, ignorance of the above cosmetics we care to wear, to stay fashionably appropriate. 

But after every storm, comes the calm. And this Calm, brings with itself, a second chance. A second chance to re-sort ourselves, to re-prioritize and to re-shape our future. The storm probably tore your house down and left you dazed and hurting immensely. But if pain can kill one's will, pain, can also nourish courage. What course of action you choose, the tamer or the bolder, depends on your personality and the yearning of your desires. But what you have in front of you, is this ornately beautiful 'Second Chance'. Take it or kick it. After all, a mistake, cannot be a mistake, if repeated. 

All I can say is 'We can't go back in time and make a brand new start. But we can start now and have a brand new End'. 

Friday, February 22, 2013

What's WhatsAPP?

So, why would you name your texting app, whatsApp??? Because, wassup wasn’t available? And it would be cool to put a pun on it and rename it WhatsApp making it well ‘jargoned’ technically?

Anyways, doesn’t matter. WhatsApp is the latest thingamabob YOU MUST HAVE on your smart phones. If you are not a Whatsapper, you don’t belong to this world and only God can save you???? You don’t have to be a purveyor of the latest gizmos and/or apps, but this is something you can’t NOT HAVE.

So now, apart from the regular school/building/train/bus/college/cousins groups, we now have a brand new line of groups:

Galli/Nukka group
Pan/Gutka group
Friends-who-drink group
Friends-who-don’t-drink group
Pinky’s dance class group
Chintu’s art class group
Kitty Party Group
Garba Group
TeenPatti Group…:)
Jain Pav Bhaji 'tasting' Group.....(you know what I mean ;))

And so on and so forth…. You can only be as creative as the endless labyrinths of your mind.

And we say that we have no time in the world, ya? So profound this gets. You can be busy only as busy can be. Priorities speak the truth!

 Talking about time, I wonder who makes up all these thousands of jokes that make their way through these ziggity-zaggety network of groups, exchanging screen by screen in less than a second (copy + paste at it’s best) and reaching you no matter where you are? The Santa Banta jokes, the gujju jokes, the sindhi jokes, and the ‘non-veg’ jokes. I can’t believe we still call it ‘non-veg’. Couldn’t it be just called ‘adult’ jokes? We Indians have some way to baptizing generic terminology, don’t we? And imagine the number of ‘lol’s’ that follow. INFINITE (my little boy’s favorite number). But I have to say, a lot of them are very funny and they can bring that incy vincy smile on your face in the middle of the most dreary day.

WhatsApp also inspires discussions, some good, some not-so-good, and also fights, some good and not-so-good :). And while it certainly shrinks our world (and we thought FACEBOOK did it, duh), it also makes us lazy.  

People!!!! A ‘whatsapp’ birthday message can never replace a phone call, as WORDS can never replace the VOICE. Let’s not do away with that one ‘primitive’, although ‘personal’ touch that can touch the chords of the heart and fill it with the ‘feel-goodness’.

Oh, well, the two sides of a coin. So, though I need to ‘mute’ my phone in the night for my over-enthusiastic ‘cousins’ (wink wink), I love it and it’s here to stay. So let’s keep whatsapping and be a ‘tap’ away from our ginormous circle of family and friends.

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